(((GRACE))). So sorry my friend. Do what you need to do to protect yourself and your kids. DnJ gives you great advice on taking the high road and making the dealings as amicable as possible. I did this and the financial hit was as minimal as it could be. The hit to the heart...that’s another matter. Time, space and, as DnJ said, choosing better over bitter (do darn tough sometimes!!), will help. Sending you lots of love and healing energy across the miles!! xo