Yes and not validating. Plus you reminded her again that she doesn’t want to be your wife. You need to brush up on DB 101.
I see...I did have many opportunities to validate and I was so focused on her faults that I didn't even recognize it.
Part of my problem is that I'm just tired of all this crap and I'm truly starting to be less interested in her. But I see that that attitude will fully shut the door and I'm not ready for that just yet.
I'll brush up on DB101 and get back at it. Overall I feel like I'm doing decent with it - I don't text her and don't ask about her whereabouts. I validate as often as I can ( but clearly missing opportunities). I'm positive when I'm around her and I'm doing things with my life that I enjoy. However, I make my mistakes and can be better.
Thanks LH19
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
