Moving Forward

[Jac12]

Thanks guys - yes at this point I really don't care why she was late. In my head I just assume that she's with someone else and it helps me to move forward without her.

That said, I still hope she's healthy in general and I worry that she's not taking care of her mental health.

When she eventually came by (2.5 hours late) she apologized and looked like she felt bad. I told her I enjoyed my time with our son but moving forward we need to be consistent. I had to change my plans because of this.This was our convo:

W: I'm so sorry, I feel so bad.
Me: No big deal, I enjoyed my time. I'd rather spend my time with S than go golfing but we need to be consistent.
W: I don't remember us agreeing on a time. I'm worried about my memory now.
Me: Yeah we agreed on 8am but even if you forgot I'm concerned that you didn't come early to spend time with your son. You basically missed out on 3 hours with him and last Wednesday you were crying that you didn't get to see him enough. I know you don't want to hear it from me but I know you. You are a great Mom and but you're not acting like yourself. Are you doing ok?
W: Yeah, I think so
Me: Ok, well I hope you have someone to talk to about your thoughts because you may not want to be part of this family, or be my wife, but you're still a mom to Kai and he needs his mom to be healthy.
W: Yeah....


I know I said too much so no need for any 2x4's. She still won't open up at all. She thinks her world is perfect and all her physical changes are making her a better person. She is so wrong. She's becoming more and more awful. And she also asked if she could spend Sunday's with him instead of Saturdays because she wants to go out with friends on Saturdays.

Also, still has not seen her L about the Separation agreement. Says its been busy at work.