4 months in....(Re: Advice needed)

[peacetoday]

the vacation maybe gave you false hope so the hurt came back again

I would embrace it because this does hurt a lot- no way around the pain-

putting him on a shelf and what the future holds
work on now...healing..being there for kids..getting back to a stronger place
keep all interactions pleasant, fun, do some 180s new hair, new shoes, makeup ect, go out make a new freind
talk about some dream that you always wanted like playing a instrument or creating a garden and take action
to build up your life-

If he says something about leaving, or trying to ruin the M or start a fight

you can respond something like
I feel sad if you decide to xyz, but I understand what you are saying

listen to u tube videos on feminine energy and create a upbeat energy in home
compliment him if he does anything right

try this for 30 days
work on lifting your vibration and being there for the kids..
let him make his own choices on his own with no help from you-