Today is my W's day to be with our S. We agreed on Wednesday she would come for 8am.

It's now after 9am and she's still not here - text convo:

Me: Where are you? you ok?
W: Hey I'm still at my place, just getting up. I'm ok thanks.
W: I didn't think I was needed super early. Oh no, is that no the case?
Me: When you left on on Wednesday we are agreed on 8am. What time will you get here?
W: Oh my god I don't remember that, I'm so sorry. Do you have somewhere to be?
Me: Nowhere specific anymore. I was supposed to play golf at 9:30
W: Goddamnit I'm sorry frown

No further response from me. Even if I didn't have anywhere to be she was crying on Wednesday because she misses our S so much. Now she's going to be 2 hours late - it doesn't appear as though he's a priority to her.

Any suggestions on how to handle this when I see her soon? I definitely will not be asking what she was doing.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019