Grace, I don't know what to say, but I wanted to say something-yours is one of the threads I've been following to try to gain some perspective on my sitch. I'm just sorry that he had to pull this on you. But following your threads, you seem to be getting stronger and stronger with each page I've read-and I think your plan is a good one-and really what you need to do to protect yourself.
Good luck
Me: 57 H:60 Married: 25 yrs DB #1 June 4/19 "I love you forever" June 14/19 DB#2: June 19/19 ILYBINILWY