I feel gut punched,,,again.

I have been clearing out “stuff” that we accumulated over 20 odd years. From the basement and garage. Throwing out some, setting aside others for a yard sale, and keeping some,

It has been a heartbreaking task - dismantling our lives. I’ve done it alone. No help from him - none. He’s too busy enjoying the summer and visiting OW.

He swore he wasn’t going anywhere for the entire month of August so he could help clear out stuff and get the house ready for sale. That was a lie. He’s visiting her now for another week or more. He doesn’t know I know. . I have taken days off from work to get this done and the house up for sale for Labor Day. He’s taken days off from work to visit her.

The last time I saw him last week, he dropped something off and before he left I suggested he have a look at the items I set aside for the yard sale in case there is something there he doesn’t want sold. His reply? “Yeah,,,I don’t care” and then he left without a glance. He was in a hurry to get ready for his OW visit.

This is how little our life meant to him. “I don’t care”. My reaction? I want nothing to do with him. I want him out of my life entirely. I regret that there is still business to deal with before I can do that.

How heartless and insensitive can these jerks get?


Last edited by Adios; 08/17/19 01:17 PM.