Hi, I have a question for the vets : it seems that most people are afraid of filing for divorce because they fear that they will lose their wife forever. But why would it be more difficult to win her back after divorce rather than before ? Being legally married does not prevent WAW or WW from cheating or do whatever they want to do. I am really interested to hear your thoughts about this. In my case (which I have not explained yet on this forum), it has been 8 months since my wife said ILYBINILWY and moved out. Since then, I have not seen any change in her behavior and I am considering filing for divorce, hoping that it will demonstrate to her that I am detaching and I am ready to live without her. This way I am not the follower anymore. I see it as the ultimate LRT.
What yo are writing is true it is the ultimate LRT but this is DIVORCEBUSTING so why would we advocate you get divorced?
Nothing you DO is going to wake them up or make them change. That is all on them. You need to do things that you can CONTROL not something you think is going to make them change. That is their own free will.
Please start your own thread to discuss this so we do not continue to hijack this thread.
