H liquidated part of our only joint asset that was cash ready. It’s been transferred to a bank. I can only assume that’s his half of a place he’s buying with OW. Her home is under contract. She will have money soon. But of course nothing can be assumed. He won’t return my phone call. I only left 1 message. It was an impulse. When (if) he calls back, I won’t pick up. I don’t think he will call back, though.
He’s an idiot. I don’t know if I should tell the kids or let this play out. They will immediately text him, I’m sure. I don’t even know all the facts, just that a good chunk of change has been transferred without my consent (although he doesn’t need it – I confirmed that with my financial advisor). It’s possible he’s not buying it with OW because he has an annuity too he can use (inheritance).
In any event, a message is going to my attorney today, and she will be retained.
