Now, I’m trying not to care as much. But I don’t know what that means. Does that mean that I’m falling out of love with her?
A little bit! 6 months ago I loved her more than me. I now put me and my kids first. I still love her.
Originally Posted by "HrtHsbnd"
Does that hurt what’s left of our relationship?
This new "I love you" isn't hurting our reconciliation. Consider our partners already put themselves first! She gets after leaving me she needs to rebuild my trust. I get for what drove her away I need to rebuild her trust. Hopefully someday we'll each feel safe putting each other first again.