Unchien at first it didn’t think about it bothering her. Then it dawned on me how she is. But enough people on here have told me I can’t worry about what she is going to think. I did so much of that in the past. Now I am going to do things that are good for me and my children. I am not going to be mean or nice, just indifferent. I’ll validate when necessary but also not let her dictate anything or walk all over me. The book is helping but I still have more to read!! Thank you everyone for the recommendation.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20