Honestly "going dark" doesn't really count until you've done it for months and months. When people do these daily countdowns it kind of smacks of expectations. Have no expectations.
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WAW still has made no outreach. It makes me sad, but I really do feel like we're done.
You're coming to this conclusion after having been here a month and gone dark for 9 days? You did read Cadet's links, DR and other threads here, right? When everyone keeps saying this is a "marathon", I would hope you would understand from that that the timeline you are facing is a year or more. WAS's all speak in absolutes- "we will NEVER get back together" and such. It's just a reflection of her current feelings, but her feelings can and will change down the road.
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This is the longest we've gone without contact.
I know it's hard, but try to get used to it. This is what she wants for now.
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Met a friend for breakfast. It was nice to be out around other people for a change. Also called some old friends, and a couple of them are coming into town this weekend to hang out.
