My WW has yet to admit anything more than an EA, though this week, she did get her own phne account and change her #.
Your posts have made me realize, this hasn't just happened to me, that it wasn't all my fault.
I will pray for you and your daughter. God has better days for us both ahead.
Wow, our situation is very similar. When she told me 100% about wanting a divorce, that crushed me also than I found out about the OM, that hurt even more. I wanted to reconcile just like everyone else but she said that she bottled this up for too long and that she had enough. I honestly don't think that is the real reason but I try to stop making sense of any of it because it will just go in circles.
I would like to believe that everything happens for a reason.