Thanks all

We are back to silent treatment. No conversation whatsoever and ignoring/blanking me if I ask any questions regarding the kids. He is treating me as though I am being punished if that makes sense.

I am keeping busy and trying to backtrack to distance, space etc and I shall try to be mysterious!

He has always thrown things when he gets angry or calls me names/ hurtful things. Says nasty things about me to the kids etc. Even snatching things out of my hands. He threw the plate on the floor, then when I calmly told him it wasn't acceptable he picked it up again and threw it harder until it smashed. That's when I told him to go and sort himself out.

As the years of our R have gone on I have realised that he treats him Mum in a similar way. They do not have much to do with each other.

K