Hey curtis, you are light years distance from DB doing what you´ve done. I´m sorry to tell you man...
Just give her time and space. Stop pushing. Detach and do your life. GAL like a mad man. Don´t wait for crumbs. You can´t force her back.
Go to DB basics, page 1. Start all that again.
Forget about Retrouvaille. Have some dignity and tell her she´s free to live her fantasy life. Respect yourself Curtis. Get out of that vicious cycle, it goes down and down. Emerge, onward and upward. Your family needs the lighthouse shining. Your children need to see that light. It´s yours! Shine!
NO FEAR
Stay strong there Curtis, Please excuse me for being so harsh. Your W needs to get out of her fantasy world. I was there some time ago...it´s no real. But you need to let her go and face reality too. Your family deserves that.
