My wife did. It’s not the same type of MC that I’ve seen on here though. It’s been VERY good and VERY helpful for both of us. Our purpose is to get her to the point of wanting to work on our marriage.
I get the LRT and I need to do a better job of it, but it’s just hard.
This type of MC has been the very best thing we could do to heal our relationship .
I can understand why you feel that way, but I don’t text her all the time. I hardly text her at all. I know she’s not cheating, so I guess I’m in that exclusive club. She may be having an imaginary affair, but nothing emotional or physical.
I haven’t heard not to do anything g a husband would do before and it makes sense. I’ll use that to justify not doing anything for her. I don’t do anything that you mentioned at all, except worry about her. I worry about her because I can’t help it. She doesn’t know that though.
She has severe depression. I brought her out of it, but she’s back in it now. She always looks so tired and her eyes are like glass. There’s nothing in them anymore.
What you said makes sense. We just talk during our webchats with my son. I’ve decided to stop talking to her there too.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Who initiated MC? And what is the stated purpose for you guys to go to MC currently?
If your W has filed, you are totally in the LRT mode: 1. Stop pursuing (COMPLETELY) 2. GAL. 3. Wait and see.
Don't contact her about anything. I'm really not seeing the point of MC so maybe you can help me out there.
She doesn't care about your feelings, but you want to text her all the time and have her send you pics of her? She prolly has some dude she's sending those pics to. Just keep that in mind when you think you want to act like her H. Just don't do anything a H would do for her. Don't worry about her, don't need to help her, don't need to listen to her long stories, don't need to text her back often or at all, don't call her...does that make sense?
There's no little talk or text you can send to make her feel like trying with you. When she sees you are totally fine without her she may wonder why you don't want her anymore. Maybe. Just go grab life by the balls and forget about her for the time being.
