Just wanted to stop by and provide a little post. I've been doing absolutely great the last few weeks. Having NC with the W has been a blessing haha. Next week I'll be getting my 401K loan and finding a place, as well as hiring my attorney and starting the D process. I am no longer waiting on the W to do anything, done with the back and forth games. Also, next week the wedding loan will finally be paid off which thankfully the W has been continuing to pay half of. So one less bill!
I've been having a blast playing disc golf and am starting to make it a more prominent hobby. I plan to go out a few times this weekend and play. Work has been going well, staying busy so that's a plus. Was working lots of OT for a few weeks.
Also, next month a group of friends and I are planning a weekend trip to the east coast of FL for a concert and some beach time. We're planning to get an airbnb for the weekend and just have a great time. I'm really excited for this and can't wait.
I'll be sure to keep everyone in the loop on progress as the D gets filed and me moving into my own place. Things seem to be going right on track to my plan as I wanted to move out on my own right around this time.
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020