OM really isn't an OM though. He's just a WH. No contact mode is good IMO. GAL, and maybe one day she comes back. During NC, you don't reply at all unless she is about to beat the door down to get you back. Seriously, follow that plan from the one site.

Originally Posted by Family Man
From what I'm hearing the following principles always apply:
She's got to think she's lost me before she'll want me
It'll take too long to be worth it
My situation is as bad as everybody else's
shortcuts like grand gestures are always a bad idea
All optimism is misplaced


This is pretty good, though I'd say you should have tons of optimism in yourself!

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.