H,She said she can't send you pictures because you're separated and then in the next sentence you say she dropped mentioning separation or divorce.
What are discovery papers? Is that a typo and should be divorce?
From my brief scan of your last few posts it sounds like you are giving her total control and she is manipulating you.
What's happening in MC that you are seeing positive signs?
I can see why you would feel that way, but I meant that she hadn’t mentioned S or D until that point.
Discovery is something that happens during the D process.
In some ways I am giving her total control. While that doesn’t make her sound good, that’s part of her healing process. I’ve seen this happen when she gets upset with friends or family. She just wants the control. I don’t think it’s NMMNG, as much as it is just her personality.
Why do you feel she is manipulating me? I’m not arguing with you, I just want to understand better so that I am more prepared.
In MC, she is not mentioning either S or D and even talking about what the future looks like. We are working through issues and have been able to have much better conversations. That recently changed this weekend because of all the things I mentioned. She hasn’t had our therapist to speak too.
