listen to some online videos about dating,learn about feminine energy and getting back together just to learn some new skills
nothing to lose and see where it all turns
It does seem like he was trying to create a fight after a nice vacation maybe also pressure from OW
I would think about being mysterious , busy, let him wonder where you are make a few new friends, activites and a new hobbiey and continue being kind, upbeat and dont bring up any R stuff
let him see what he is loosing-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow