Hey AS, yes I’ve heard the castle analogy! Thanks for your feedback.
LH and Ginger thanks. Yes I get the feeling she is trying to manipulate too. Yes I don’t really want to D. But I think it’s for the best. I told her a couple months ago I wouldn’t be in an open R. Which is what it is now. I need to stick to my word. While I hope for R eventually, many things would have to change. I also plan on buying a house within the next year so the longer I sit around in marriage limbo the longer I will need to stall buying a house. My rent is pretty high at my current house so it feels like I’m just flushing my money down the drain the longer it takes to get my house. Thanks guys
