I meant she would view it as pathetic. You don't propose to a woman who is in another relationship. Again that is something you would see on tv. It doesn't work in real life.
Look man I'm just being honest with you. The list you posted of the OMs great qualities are comical. That is why right now she doesn't think very highly of you. Can that change over time? Sure, but most likely many months more than likely years down the road.
As for her breaking the silence your best bet is to listen and validate.
I get the sense that you think your situation is different. It is not, that is why not one person on the board will tell you it's grand jesture time.
