It needs to be because you feel so good about yourself right now. And if your W was yo stop with the positive response, you would still feel awesome because the changes you are making are for you
And to add to this. You should still feel awesome even if you W decided to make out with some guy at the show.
Her behavior should not affect how you feel. It might affect how you respond.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
