What kind of woman would want to marry a man if she had to FORCE him to divorce his W first? Do you really think that's a strong foundation?.
She (and he) have convinced themselves that his marriage to me was a disastrous mistake. Their relationship feels so ‘right’ and justifies anything they have to do to stay together. Divorcing me is finally going to free him from his ‘mistake’.
Will it crash and burn? I wonder. Going into 3rd year with as much passion and intensity as day 1. It’s a long distance r too so it will likely go on forever.
I am trying to let it all go and just walk away,,,for good. I am just struck by how incredible it is that behaviour like theirs gets rewarded. Destroy a marriage, shatter a life in the process, and live happily ever after. Even if it’s not forever (like my marriage) it’s going to be a very long time given their current passion level.
