Thanks AS. Yes that was my question. And your reply is not what I wanted to hear, but, as always, a good point. It sounds like WASs are typically lacking in confidence. She has stated that if it were not for OM we would be working on the R. I'm sure I made her happy before she left so my best hope is that the A fizzles out. The lack of discussion over OM's attendance and the broad smile makes me wonder whether she is simply playing a game with me( I try to be optimistic ). Does anyone think that this is a time for a grand gesture - e.g. a honeymoon with or without a marriage. I wonder whether OM would even object under the circumstances since it's such a new relationship and I would make her very happy. Grand gestures don't seem to be recommended here but surely there must be times when it counts. Thoughts anybody?
Now divorced, boys grown up. Now in new failed relationship( never again, please )
