Are you asking if I think you are the better option and she will therefore choose you? If that's what you're asking then no, WAS's nearly always "affair down". No one is really sure why, but I suspect it's because if they look downward on the "desirability scale" then they will find an OM who will do just about anything for them because they feel they don't "deserve" them. Often what they lacked in the R was nurturing, and a lesser OM will fall all over himself to give her what she's been lacking.
