New: Advice needed

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You can't change the path of his MLC by sleeping together or not sleeping together. It will happen no matter what you do. So you have to decide for yourself if you want to be his wife in that way even when he is not being your H and continue to expect nothing from him. It's something you do to stay true to what you believe, it won't help him come back or not come back. He will interpret it in whatever way he wants, he may see you as rejecting him even if you do it. Believe me, I have done so many beautiful things that were interpreted as crazy or evil. Or he might love it and still move out and still say it was always bad with you. I don't say that to kill your hope -- quite the opposite! I say it to restore your hope that you don't have to pay attention to what is happening, your hope is about a distant future. It can't play into your decision to do it or not now. Expect nothing, believe nothing. Decide if you want to sleep with him because you are his W no matter what he does or if not, decide if it would be fun to sleep with your houseguest. Or say no, and if the reaction is bad, know that it has nothing to do with you.