AS, thanks but I actually ended up having lunch with her today, didn’t see your post in time oops.
I was just suggesting that because I thought you didn't want to go, but obviously you were OK with it since you went She invited so it's fine if you go in that case (assuming you want to). It really messes with some people's detachment so it's a personal preference.
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So yeah we had lunch, first time in a long time. I was expecting her to bring up the D. She did not. Had a pleasant time, I’ll leave it at that. Still unsure of her motives and also sort of felt like it was a temp check or something.
GOOD! A lunch with zero pressure from you may very well help her to start seeing you in a different light.
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She wrote a couple more texts that didn’t warrant a response from me so I didn’t reply. About an hour later I get a “I miss you” text. Replied with “oh really” text that I saw sandi recommend saying when you get similar messages.
I think her heart is softening towards me a bit, but there I go assuming her thoughts again lol.
It's a good sign for sure. I wouldn't throw a party just yet, stick to your DB'ing. But she may very well be learning to miss you. Do you know the castle analogy? If not I'll pull it out of my notes and repost it. She's still going to run back in the castle now and then.
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GAL going well. Took my S to a water park and then to dinner with some friends. My hockey team has a game tonight and we’ve won 14 in a row, so I got that going for me.
She invited so it's fine if you go in that case (assuming you want to). It really messes with some people's detachment so it's a personal preference.