U,

You are right. I know I shouldn’t be trying to mind read but I still do once in a while haha. It’s funny, you think you have DBing down well and then slip up here and there. There’s always things to improve on I suppose.

Few hours after lunch I got a “thanks for lunch” text. Replied “no worries”. She wrote a couple more texts that didn’t warrant a response from me so I didn’t reply. About an hour later I get a “I miss you” text. Replied with “oh really” text that I saw sandi recommend saying when you get similar messages.

I think her heart is softening towards me a bit, but there I go assuming her thoughts again lol.

GAL going well. Took my S to a water park and then to dinner with some friends. My hockey team has a game tonight and we’ve won 14 in a row, so I got that going for me.

Some close friends of mine just found out their 50 something year old father has been having an affair for months. Felt so much sympathy for them and was able to give them a lot of emotional support and advice. So brutal hearing about this. Before my sitch I probably wouldn’t have cared much, but having experienced it myself has really opened my eyes to the pain things like this cause. I know they must be hurting so much. Thanks guys


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19