What do I do with my anger? I’m not even sure who to be angry with.
When MLC hit I followed the DB tactics. No pressure, no R talks, no friendship, give them space and time. Etc.
At first he was a boomerang- clingy one too. Then he was just a boomerang. Now, 2 years later he is barely in my life at all. When I do see or talk to him he is so indifferent, so uninterested. He could care less if we are friends. This one hurts actually because he really wanted to be friends for ages after bd but I flat out refused because of his OW and the advice I followed. Now, he and OW are tighter than ever and I’m just ,,, no one important to him.
I will always wonder if the advice to not be friends is good advice or not. It seemed so at the time but look at where I am now.
Once the house is gone and our legal connections severed, there will be nothing at all. So hard to accept this reality.
