How would it benefit you to out the A? It wouldnt. I was going to inform my exwws work because she and her boss were using company resources for their meetings. She would have been fired along with OM.

OM is also married. But how would getting my exww fired or telling OMW help me? It wouldnt benefit me at all.

Even if you did out the A, your EXWW would just hate you more for hurting her lover. It would just cause her to resent you more and give her more justification in how she feels.

Remember, everything you do, must be focused on bettering yourself. All of your actions must be to benefit you. Also, do you want her to come back on her own or because she was manipulated into doing it?

Keep on DBing and keep on detaching. Thats your course right now period.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019