Whilst I would still appreciate input on the positive signs( especially from women ) the thought of being Plan B is playing on my mind. Any thoughts on this:
She is lady captain at the golf club and has organised an away weekend. We were down to share a room. In her angry notes she said she didn't want me to go. She was at my place the other day and she mentioned that we had to confirm the arrangements. I didn't want think about it at that time so I asked her to email the options. There were 2 rooms available - her double and a single. Another member( Ed ) and I both wanted to go. In the email she proposed 4 options in this order:

  • We still share, Ed has the single
  • I share with Ed she has the single
  • She shares with OM, Ed has the single
  • She shares with OM, I have the single

Before I saw the email she contacted OM( who is not a member of our club ) and he said he would not attend if it meant bumping a member.( so he wouldn't go ). As she was telling me this it dawned on both of us that she couldn't share with OM and a huge grin formed on her face when she realised option 1 would work. That is what she has now booked. What is she playing at? It seems an extraordinary length to go to to keep me as plan B. There was no pleading with him to come( how would that make him feel ). How should I play it on the day( not the golf )?

Now divorced, boys grown up. Now in new failed relationship( never again, please )