Thanks Steve, yes I am absolutely up for the commitment to the best relationship either of us has ever known. As regards marriage I was against it because it was early in our R. Now we're 16 years in and I feel more committed than ever so although I don't need it, if she does it's no big deal with me. I don't think marriage should be used to keep us together - we should want to be together because it's such fun.
Now divorced, boys grown up. Now in new failed relationship( never again, please )
