So happy for you Nyla. It sounds like you are on your way to making a new MR. Just a word of warning... my XH returned after BD#1 and said everything was back to normal. I was so grateful to have him home, I just let him move back in and we didn’t really discuss what had happened or what we both wanted going forward. Every time I would ask him anything, he would say his memory was fuzzy and it didn’t feel like it was him. He couldn’t really explain anything. He was ashamed and sad about his behaviour so I decided to just forgive him and resolved to move on. Two months later, he was back to old behaviours only this time he was much sneakier about it. Fast forward to today and we are days away from divorce and he has started his new life with OW (who he didn’t know back then). Anyway... my advice to you is to just stay vigilant and if something doesn’t sit well, address it. Don’t bury your head in the sand like I did. I hope everything works out for you. (((HUGS)))
