She wanted to get married quite early on but I said I wasn't up for it. If we didn't want to stay together I thought we should be free to split. I could say it backfired
I wouldn't say it backfired, more like this became a self-fulfilling prophecy. She wanted to split....and was free to do so.
So Family Man, I see you shrugging your shoulders and saying: "If we get back together it will be a new beginning. She has said that she agrees with me about marriage now so I'm sort of easy either way if it's what she really needs."
I don't understand that. You've been around long enough to have firm beliefs in what YOU want. So if you get back together, are you willing to give her the long-term commitment that you have thus far been unwilling to give her?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
