Oh Hamburg-I just read all your threads. You have certainly been through the wringer, and you know of what you speak. Thank you again for your hard earned and valuable insight. Don has gone totally dark on me. He's even timing his "visits" home for when he thinks I'm not here. Is he just totally spooked by the idea of a separation agreement? It's for his protection as much as mine. I could just as easily stop paying the mortgage too..I just crunched all the numbers if he backs out of paying anything...looks like I'll be working overtime to make ends meet. But I was before, so really, what's new?


Me: 57 H:60
Married: 25 yrs
DB #1 June 4/19
"I love you forever" June 14/19
DB#2: June 19/19 ILYBINILWY