Now what?

[BarbH]

Thanks again all: He doesn't have hidden assets, he doesn't even know what assets he has! I am worried he will run up debts, hook up with someone else and then stop paying his share here. I do not have the resources to carry this place. We need to be separated for a year before divorce, so this is just the separation agreement, but it will dictate how assets are split during the divorce. I see he's taken the boat. But I have pictures of it. So I think I will call my sister-in-law, and suggest that Don and I meet there after I get off work on Wednesday. Honestly I think he's so messed up that he thinks by not dealing it's not "real" and he can come back. Don't know why he would want to when he's clearly in a place right now where he can't even be in the room with me.

Oh yes, hamburg-I really now believe nothing of what he says. I'm talking to the bank tomorrow re: the refinance and paying out of debts. Then if I can handle the mortgage-he can leave. Though I think this bouncing back and forth is already wearing thin for him.