Hey Leo, I’m familiar with your sitch. But yeah haha as bad as it sounds I’m glad there are others going through this. I obviously wouldn’t wish this on anyone but I’m glad we have all been able to provide support and advice to others in similar situations to our own.
AS, I appreciate your analysis. I enjoyed getting feedback on my conversations it is appreciated. Like I said I felt that I did well in some places but not great in others.
Sooo bit of a question. W has been texting me a lot more than previously. My guess is that it’s just distance pursuit in action.
Anyway she first texted apologizing about the other day. I didn’t reply. Then she asked if I would come to the park with her and my S tomorrow. I politely declined because I have work. She then replied that “ok well let me know if you can make it work or change your mind”. I didn’t reply to this. A few hours later another text. “I want to get lunch with you tomorrow.”
I’m not sure what the point of all this is. I made it clear over a month ago that I wasn’t interested in being friends or having family time anymore. I did well at enforcing this and thought she had gotten the message.
I do not think this is any attempt to reconnect as I truly don’t believe she feels remorse for her actions and I still think she has resentment from the past year of me not showing her enough love. It just seems like she still needs to go through the long process.
As I’m typing this she texted me trying to plan a breakfast date the day after tomorrow. Wtf.
