Assume she wants you to touch her, be romantic, etc. Touch, tease , and tell her what to do.
Assume might be the wrong word. I believe it is more of an acute awareness of how she is responding to you.
It all starts when she is getting ready:
H:"I am taking S to sitter while you are getting ready. I will pick you up at x:15"
In the car ride, is she having a pleasant experience? The smell, the temperature, the music. Do not ask about the temperature. Set it to where she is comfortable. If she looks cold, turn it up a bit, if she looks hot, turn it down. Music low so she can talk. This is a good time to let her talk (and you listen). NO R TALK from you.
Building up sexual tension is your goal. Making and breaking physical contact. Not taking anything she does personally. Pleasantly surprising her. Start out as small and non-sexual as possible. If she responds positively, then step it up a notch. If you do things perfectly, she MAY move in for a kiss.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
