a lot of MLCers balk at the D process

they take their time usually until, it benefits them or the oW pressures them possibly

I would as Job says keep expectations at zero and continue to protect your assets

some stop paying as time goes on or as Hamburg says they rack up debt

MY xh paid me every week during the separation
I thought my situation was different..

but what I didnt realize was he was paying me with business funds and not paying vendors racking up debt in our business while supporting OW and living on the beach with her-

she was also charging lots of stuff and the business was paying it off
all of this I found out later..after the business was in the red-

be aware and alert..they are tricky, and they lie a l ot

Some people will not understand the MLc process but many will
especially if they had one
Most people will give advice from their perspective and their experience with D


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow