Sandi, please see my above (and probably over-long) response/post on this as well.
I feel the need to reiterate, here, that this is a really big issue for me, and the more and more i think about this, the more it disgusts me. I'm sure she's going to think/say that it's no big deal, that she didn't do anything, etc etc etc. But...Really? I mean... really? My trust in her-- so hard to rebuild and over so many months-- has now again been significantly damaged... significantly... and I see this as a meaningful setback.
Not sure what she could possibly say that is going to justify this or make me feel differently, and I am an analytical guy who can likely come up with more scenarios/possibilities than the regular Joe (as those who have noted my tendency to rationalize and defend her actions in the past would attest to.)
Not sure I should talk to her about this tonight, because I am likely to be less level headed than i should be... but going to have to soon as we have our annual family vacation coming up starting Wed night... (and why the hell does she always seem to pull this crap right before some sort of family event/vacay/function.
Ah, well... All y'all's further thoughts on this and what i initially responded to Sandi with are, as always, warmly appreciated.
Here's hoping I remain one of the forum's happy endings...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
