Maybe I know what to do 6

[Ready2Change]

Grabbing her hand sure seems like a big step

She bought tickets. She invited you.


I didn't say hold her hand all night and caress it.

Act like this is a "first date" with a woman you do not know. Alpha up. Make and break contact as appropriate.


Gage her reaction. If she is responsive, then you can test other non sexual touching.



When it is loud, you can "lean in" to hear her. Have you worked on "manning up" your voice? Deeper tone? Do you know how to project a louder volume with out yelling? If the hand holding went well, then you can mix in shoulder touches as you talk.


Do not be goofy OZ. New OZ needs new ways to make W laugh.