I am so happy to read that you and the kids had a wonderful time. It's those little unexpected things that make life so enjoyable when you are doing them with those you love.
Glad things went well at the in-laws. Your w cannot control everything that you do w/your kids. She will need to face the consequences of her actions...but that will be down the road a bit.
Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.