Just to add I think it would have been easier if she would have been a prototype of my xw. My xw is blonde, 5'4 prob 115 to 120. The dr has dark hair, is almost 5'9 and is around 150 lbs. I am still attracted to her but what has really made the difference for me is how she treats me. She is such a loving and caring person. Treats me like a king. That has been the difference maker for me.

Had a fun weekend at the lake with girls, their friends, and the dr. Just a lot of relaxing and hanging out at the pool. Back to reality today and the first day of school is tomorrow. I am going to go meet the girls up at school to see them off.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018