As you all may know that is reading this. Friday the papers were filed, in 2 months time I should be officially single. I feel like my detachment is coming along. I noticed I do still think about her from time to time but it just feels different than the first month or 2 that I was dealing with this. A different kind of emotions. I know I haven't fully dropped the rope yet, I still have a few fingers on it but in time it will fall on its own. This weekend, I just mainly hung out with my daughter - didn't do much but spend time together watching TV and watching her do some art edits on the computer. I been neglecting the yard and when I got home Friday, it was mowed. My neighbor is such awesome people, I told them "Thank you, I know you cut my yard. She played it off with a bit but finally admitted to it. Her response, was "That is what good neighbors do, we look out for each other" and she knows what I am going through because her current husband ex wife cheated on him with his best friend. It definitely helps to have all this support, coping with it makes it a bit easier.
Oh yeah, my STBX and I contact with each other is basically non existent - if there is, its about our D, usually a quick text exchange than we go on our marry way.