Steve,
I see what you are saying. Detaching and GAL are different bings. It’s only been 2 months. I am slowly detaching to some degree. I’ve quit following her and spying on her. I’ve let her come to me for conversation here lately. I am going to spend all my time focusing on my youngest son. I opted out of a golf tournament this weekend and will spend the weekend planning something for the two of us to do together.