Hj, good to hear from you despite the circumstances.
Sandi is still here. Haven't seen a post from Arista in a while. My initial thought is to have you go back and read that. Objectively. Pretend like you are someone else reading HJ's post. Tell me if you get the same impression as me: HJ's gut is telling him one thing, but his mind is trying to "rationalize" it away.
The thing that stood out to me was the "if she had said she wanted to go there I would not have objected". Then why did she hide it?
I'll defer to Sandi in this one. I'm not sure you need to take any action. The deception is troubling considering the past, but likely it was just her having a "single ladies" night out with the horrible influence of the BFF. Thank goodness her visits are few and far between.
Last edited by Steve85; 08/12/1909:58 AM.
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