Unchien-you’re right! I actually never thought about those “I’m a piece of s***” comments that way before. He’s made them several times over the years (notably at times when he’s acted horrifically and I’ve managed to keep my cool) and I’ve always thought of them as brief moments of accountability. But they really aren’t. They are the opposite, a total cop out. UGH

Hi Sunset— I just read your entire thread, and it honestly took my breath away. I’m in awe of your strength. Its so interesting—I find myself really wishing I had something to offer you by way of support. But I’ve been on this board for a lot longer than you, and I feel like you’re leaps and bounds ahead of me in your progress. That could be for a multitude of reasons, but I’m impressed. Thanks for replying here, I’ll write more on your thread smile