Had my first solo vacation with the kids. Went to a waterpark resort and had a blast! I thought it would be difficult keeping up but it was no problem. Then made some unexpected side trips to some state parks and hiked and went swimming. Those unexpected things are something W would never have done.
Then stayed with my parents in law for 2 days. They were happy to see the kids and welcomed me with open arms. The extended family also visited. One thing was common: they all have disdain for W. It has been a year and I learned of some things that happened while still married. Her parents are lost and very disappointed. They happen to know OM and will never approve of him. They have not spoken to in several months. We are planning another trip to see them in a few months. It was a bit difficult at first, but the aura was like we never left off. They are wonderful people and I am blessed to have them in my life after all that has happened. W does not know yet we visited but I am sure the kids will tell her. We are all prepared for the litany of angry texts from W.
