Kind of a unique situation. Has anybody got confirmation of an affair long after the divorce was final? I suppose it's easier to handle now than if I knew before I was able to GAL and detach, but it still stings a bit. I guess I'm not completely detached. I used to tell myself that "I don't want to be with somebody that doesn't want to be with me." Now, I've thrown in a "and probably cheated on me" at the end smile